"Ligaw or courtship" is something we girls love. Ito kc ang time na pwede naming abusuhin ang mga lalaki at ito rin yung panahon na pwede kaming mag demand, hehe (guys malas nyo lang, pero thats the way it is... I think di na rin siguro uso masyado palibre ng girls ngayon. salamat sa mga "ms. independent" careerwoman who offers to split the bill)
Sa ligawan stage..umuulan ng flowers, chocolates, at ususal dates sa mall, movie at kung ano ano. NOT FOR ME. It wasn't the same for us (during the primitive stage) I was still in a relationship ng binigay ang matamis kong "OO" kay renner.(BAD GIRL iisipin nyo, pero hinde e, hindi ganun yun, makinig muna sa kwento ko...)
I had a long time relationship sa aking mukhang uhuging patpating jowa na kung tawagin ng tito ko eh, "ANDREW E." sa lola ko naman e "SCARECROW", yes! you heard me right, yun yung pantakot ng ibon sa bukid... at sa iba kung kaibigan eh si MR. FEELING! (kawawa naman hehe, nilibak ng husto!) nwei, ayun, we are heading our 3rd year (almost!) pero it was rocky, shaky, and parang walang essence... in short tumatagal ng walang patutunguhan. I had my share of really, as in REALLY bad times with him and his family, reason why ang beauty ko eh, super depressed at so down and out talaga... ayoko ng mag elaborate kung anomang karumaldumal ang sinapit ko sa PANGIT na yun hehe... pero, I think si daddy na rin ang gumawa ng paraan to get close to my prince charming...si mr. tangkad or renner :) (naks!)
Op, op, op!!! di ganun kadali yun, matuloy tayo, kaya ko nasabi na si daddy ang tulay eh, without my knowledge, he enrolled me sa gym and spa sa may 3CG (dun din nag part time si renner). There, my dad met my future barkada, si dhie (kasama na sila suzanne, gina, marianne, evie, omel, ning, donna, sharon, carol, tita au, eman, che,igme, yunan,rachel etc..) ayun, nagulat ako kc my dad said, I just had to go there, bayad na lahat, enrolled na ako...so I did. It was his way of finding a way for me to get out of panget. I suppose.
So ayun, to make the story of courtship short, habang nag ja-jumping jack dalawa ako, basic right and left, power travel right at rocky horse... my story began... I began to be friends with renner.
Renner or "QUEJA" - suplado at pihikan..yan lang ang dalawang salita to best describe him sabi nila dhie about him,by the way, classmates sila eversince, Physical Theraphy ang course nila.
Pero, shempre, uubra ba ang suplado sa akin????
Hindi rin!!! talagang HINDI RIN!!! Kinulit kulit ko sya, kinausap, naging close,binigyan ng CUP NOODLES, ayun... bumigay din!!!!ayos! textmate na kami!!!! ayun, tuwing ginagawa ko yung paglundag lundag na namention ko sa taas, panay kindat ni renner, padaan daan, pa dila dila...pa cute cute.
Ako naman nagpadala...oooops! Teka nakalimot! Di pa pala kami totally break ni panget. So habang namumulaklak ang aming friendship or budding romance ika nga ni renner e, nakaka amoy si panget. naamoy nya na, si renner ay... nag dra-drawing ng heart sa salamin, nangingindat, nagpapa cute and who is constantly texting me and... most of all... nag 'i love you' na sa text (kilig!!! wooooooooooow naman...)
Pero tsk! patay na!!!! nalaman nya na may "churva" kami ni renner. sugod si panget! mag aamok pa nga eh! pero it came to a point na nagharap sila and i had to chose, dahil i was asked. I honestly said... si renner hindi ikaw. ( maski, hindi pa talagang 'kami' na matatawag, pero I gave it a shot. pinili ko sya over 3 years namin ni panget... maski pano naisip ko may future ako sa kanya, nararamdaman ko, sinisigaw ng puso ko and dinasal ko nung araw na yun na si renner na talaga)
Nakakatakot din kc, sayang yung panahon, oras, memories... pero that same night, officially kami na. Kinabukasan,nalaman na sa gym at spa na kami na. MASAYA ang iba... pero di ang lahat... sila yung naglilibak sa pinagdaanan ko at kung bakit daw na ako pa ang pinili ni renner sa dami ng babae na pinakilala nila. Gulat sila... AKO KC ANG FIRST GIRLFRIEND NI RENNER. Marami nagsabi na hindi kami magtatagal... marami rin nagsabi na trip lang daw yun...may iba din na hindi pumansin sa amin, hindi ko alam kung bakit. Masaya na masakit, pero eto na... kami na... tuloy na... laban na!
Thankfully, Renner was man enough to shield me from the criticism, detractors and he faced my dad, mom and the rest of the family. Tinanggap naman sya ng pamilya ko ng buo and my dad sees him as "SAVIOUR" for bringing me back to life and for accepting my past and flaws.
He became friends with my dad. They were very close and the sight of seeing them laugh and talk together was heavenly.
THIS IS IT!!! 7 months after... kasalan na! JUNE 16, 2003. It was the date! :)
{Ang kwento ng kasal.... nasa isang blog =)}
I hope, after this year... OUR 7th year, magiging strong pa rin kami ni renner. Sana, hindi kami maapektuhan ng kahit sinong tao, bagay, hayop o pook (Pangngalan o noun ba ito? hehe)... seriously, maski siguro bungi na kami at puti na buhok, naihi na kami sa aming diapers (haha... I cannot imagine), I literally wanna grow old with him.
I hope more years of marriage to come.. katulad noon, hindi ko rin alam what is there for us in the coming years, but surely... he is definitely the only person whom I wanna share my rocking chair days with... at kahit ulyanin na sya, I will never get tired of reminding him that I was 'THE ONE', he spent his enitre lifetime with :)
P.S.
Thank you sa mga taong nag judge sa amin, good or bad, kc it made us stronger, sturdier and wiser.
Sa mga nanlibak noon at may plano sa ngayon, magbaril na lang kayo hehe :) or talon sa ilog... tubuan sana kayo ng sungay sa kilay :)) {JOKE LANG :)}
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